In sales, bad days, weeks, or even months happen—especially when no one is selling cars. Sometimes, the entire team experiences this slump, and when it does, there's a noticeable shift in the tone of our meetings.
I remember a particular meeting along those lines. For some reason, we were in a dealership-wide slump. The manager or the owner (I cannot remember which one) tossed out a warning, "Do not get sucked into the negativity of your coffee clutches." Despite the threat to our coffee, there was a lot of wisdom in those words. Negativity is a black hole that steals all hope from our hearts, minds, and intentions behind our actions. It impacts how we interact with customers, present vehicles, and apply effort when closing deals.
Negativity isn't just limited to the workplace; it can seep into every part of our lives, including our spiritual communities. It focuses our mind on an inevitable crash site instead of the destination. Rather than reaching the destination, we crash and burn based on our certainty of failure. And this attitude will not only infect us but also spread like a virus in a kids' classroom. Soon entire groups are moving like the Titanic toward an iceberg, only they collectively decided to hit the iceberg.
Negativity can feel as pervasive and consuming as a black hole, drawing in our hope, energy, and efforts. As Christians, are we not called to be a people of hope? Do the scriptures not teach us to focus on the things above?
There is an interesting scene in Exodus 18, with Moses being visited by his father-in-law, Jethro. They had been a part for a period and a lot had happened. You know the whole "let my people go" saga. Moses shared everything that happened to him and the people with Pharaoh, the Egyptians, and other troubles in their journey. But Moses focused his story on what God had done for them. Verse 9 shares Jethro's reaction: "Jethro rejoiced because of all the good that the LORD had done for Israel, whom he had delivered from the hand of Egypt." (NET)
Moses didn’t hide the difficulties, but he highlighted how God led them through adversity. The focus could have been on the mind-numbing fickleness of Pharaoh and his love for self-torment, but instead, it was on God. The focus could have been on how they left Egypt to be stuck on the seashore with an army charging at them, but instead, it was on God. The focus could have been on the lack of water and food, but instead, it was on God. Because Moses shared God's faithfulness through adversity, Jethro rejoiced.
So many churches have not been the same since COVID. Actually, many churches only became aware they were not the same because of COVID. It seems negativity about the church, the pastor, and the laity are often topics being discussed in our Christian circles, spreading from Christians to those who might come to church if not for all the complaints they have heard. A friend once shared with me that after Sunday services his family had the pastor for lunch. Not as a person invited, but as the main course!
Has the Holy Spirit quit moving? The same Spirit who hovered above the chaotic waters at the beginning, do we really believe that wind has ceased? Or could the real issue be we are all too glued to the negative to see the ways God is moving? Imagine if our conversations shifted from the negative to sharing how God moved, even if it is only in the smallest of details. Instead of being surrounded by clouds of stinking thinking, we would ourselves surrounded by clouds of witnesses. Instead of angry chants, we would hear rejoicing that draws our eyes to the things above.
Like the crew of the Titanic who tried to steer clear of disaster, we too must actively avoid the pull of negativity. But we can only do that by focusing on God's movements, even in the smallest details. We need to stir clear of the negativity found in the black holes of our coffee clutches. But that cannot be achieved if all we stare at is the negative. Witnessing and rejoicing over the moves of the Holy Spirit requires us to seek God's movements in every moment, no matter how small the detail might seem.
Written by Rev Jason Barnett, aka The Dirt Path Pastor
He serves as the Pastor at Ravenna Church of the Nazarene in Ravenna, KY and is host of The Dirt Path Sermon Podcast.
